He has a very black and white sense of right and wrong and sticks with his guns (read as teachers pet who tattle tales when someone does the wrong thing) I was worried about that more than his reading and writing skills when we sent him off to school last year, but we made it through the year with only a few incidents so this year when school started I wasn't concerned I just packed him off thinking grade 1 would be a walk in the park compared to Prep.
So today he told me he took a little car to school in his pocket to play with at lunch because no one would let him play with them. My stomach turned and I could feel the lump growing in my throat. I tried to be very casual about it and let him talk, I probably looked like a stiff board, but I tried! So it seems he's been left out, one kid kicked sand in his face, one sack whacked him, one told him out right, no you can't play with us.
I know his sense of right and wrong will be a good trait to have once he's an adult but the road to adulthood will be hard and long but we all know that. Being a teenager is hard enough but far out the kid is only 5 years old!
So while my mother tiger instincts were still taking over my body I suggested we ditch the birthday party and have a fun weekend away instead. Bugger throwing a party for a bunch of kids that let my kid play by himself at lunch time.
Don't mess with me I'm a mother.
:( Kids can be so cruel! Jack sounds like a lovely little boy and I hope it all settles down quickly. I think doing something really special as a family would be a beautiful idea for his special day. x
ReplyDeleteThanks hun, We've decided to go to Rocky go to a water park and a kids play centre. He's happy with that. I'm still sad for him though. I still have friends that I made when I was 5. Just another reason I'm glad were looking at moving away!
ReplyDelete:( Bullies suck. Have you spoken to the school to see if they have noticed anything and what their bullying policy is? It's a hard situation to be in as a mother, walking that tightrope between not letting it happen and letting him fight his own battles....
ReplyDeleteI know the school has a pretty strict policy about bullying, I don't know how much of it is bullying and how much I haven't heard. Will speak to the school on Monday, he has conjuctivitis today so no school.
ReplyDeleteThanks hun xx